Can't wait for the summer to be over.

Hellooooo! o:

I went to go check the last time I made a post and it was on June 22nd ...
Today's July 21st. DDD:
Honestly, I did not realize how fast time flies!
Especially when you get carried away with certain things.
I'm not aware of when it happened but I believe a month ago I started
to struggle with one of my classes. I should of went to a tutor to begin
with but at the time I felt confident that I didn't need any extra help.

Eventually I had to put my pride or whatever aside and go after that extra help. x:
I don't know what it is about some us who are either too terrified or too modest
or too prideful to ask for help. This applies to any situation. For me I
suppose its just that I'm too polite and it causes me to not want to bother anyone.
Also, I fear that I might create a bad experience just by bothering someone.
Fears like, What if I encounter a mean, rude tutor? or when you
think about asking your friends for help What if I annoy them or what if they think I'm a pest?

Those types of thoughts are inevitable, persistent, and they linger around.
Though, they can't be helped. We naturally worry about any little thing that might cause a disturbance. All we could ever want is to just avoid any form of trouble, by any means. :c No one likes to take risks no matter how petty or
serious they are. Funny thing is, we've all looked at someone else and
rolled our eyes at how they can't overcome something that we're able
to overcome easily. It's very difficult to understand others, even when you
actually try to understand how they think. That's one of the reasons
I guess to why people rarely ask for help ... due to the fact
that not everyone may understand you.

Looking back on my post from June (Nachi's 20th birthday) ...
On that same week I had went to an anime con and was suppose to write
a post about it.

I'll take advantage now and show you guys the outfit I wore.

Outfit: • Wig: Ebay • Headbow and JSK: Dream of Lolita • Blouse: Bodyline • Socks: Secret Shop • Shoes: An*tai*na • Cinnamoroll bag: Ebay • Petticoat: DollscroPs • Acessories: Chocomint

Oh god, that day was just awesome. :D
I received so much attention that day, I've always thought
that con goers didn't care for lolitas. lol
A few people kept calling me cotton candy girl. xD
It was definitely a memorable day and I even went to a movie
theater in that outfit.

Note: This wig made me look VERY tan. I love the wig to death
but I'll never buy one similar to this. I'm gonna stick
to browns and blacks, even if it means black mixed with blonde or something.

Completed unrelated ... but,

Who has seen HP The Deathly Hollows Part 2? :D

I REALLY want to go see it but I still need to see Part 1.
I just haven't found anyone to watch part 1 with me and I just
haven't had the time.


Donkuri said...

wow very nice! I like pastel colors!

Sarah said...

Your outfit looks so cute!! (^^)

Sammigurl said...

the outfit is amazing!!

Hibiki Hime said...

aww I loved your coordination <3
very nice wig <3
and thank you for your comment
yes I decorated the camara ^_^, it took hours of patience xD

Ice Pandora said...

Awwwie -hug-
You should always let someone help you! Even the most pro people has questions even it's just asking for advice, opinion or suggestions :)
Don't let work destroy you ^__^
I know what you mean - I have the same problem like you have, afraid that I might bother people so I reject their offer.
I'm better now tho, I just think this way: these friendly people are offering help and I reject their offer which is also bad?
I think it's okay if you don't lean on the person to much it's fine :)

Btw you look cuuuuuuute! Omgg love the complete outfit ^__^


!♥ m i m i said...

Never be afraid to ask for help! I know.. sometimes I get nervous too, especially b/c I'm one of those girls who always seem to have everything together w/o anybody else's help, but I do need help too! Especially in Math or Sciences lol. I'm glad you got the help you needed tho.

I love the outfit! Heh cotton candy girl's not a bad nickname ^-^ But I agree, the wig makes you look just a bit more tanned than in other pics. But I don't think it's a bad look! Maybe you can even accentuate it and put on rly dark foundation with white lipstick like the ganguro subculture in Japan.. not too extreme lololol. But I do like that look too, and maybe i'll try it one day. Not for regular day to day wear but just once.. hahahah. Just don't go tanning too much! :p

I haven't watched HP7 Pt 2 either D: I will soon.. hopefully.


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